Rick Beeman

I went to the movies today.   Going to the movies is one of my most favorite things to do in the world.   I was reading Wild at Heart by John Eldredge a few years back.   His theory was that God speaks to us most in whatever mode are most passionate about.   That could be nature, athletics, music, etc…   Well I am very passionate about movies and that is where he really speaks to me.   To be honest he speaks to me all the time because I have learned to listen, but I feel his presence most when I either watch movies or listen to sermons from Joel Osteen or Steve Madsen.   So I was watching a movie today, Cowboys and Aliens.   I love going to movies, did I say that already?   I estimate I’ve probably seen over 15,000 in my lifetime.   But please don’t ask me how many fiction books I’ve read.   I think you can count them on both hands and 20% of those were written by Alexander Dumas. (bonus points if you can guess th...

The first few days of Sloan Violet Beeman’s life have been quite harrowing.   As a parent you feel helpless sometimes.   Sloan was just a little over 12 hours old when Jennifer was feeding her in the hospital room.   Suddenly she started spitting up.   Jennifer quickly grabbed the aspirator and tried to clear it but it didn’t work.   Then Sloan started choking.   We quickly called the nurse.   The nurse took one look at her, had a panicked expression and whisked her out of the room.   Jennifer and I just looked at each other not knowing how to react.   What do you do in that situation?   After a few anxious minutes of trying to console a near hysterical wife we both tried to calm down.   I (by experience) have learned no not stress about much.   God has proven to me time and time again that he is in control and I trust him implicitly.   But there was just something about this that was different.   In...

Sunday night was a pretty eventful night.   At about 9:00 PM we got our first and only (so far) offer on our house, which had been on the market since March.   We went back and forth and finally agreed on a price.   The next day we were scheduled to go into the hospital for the induction.   So Jennifer on Monday being a very 9 months pregnant hoofed it with our real estate agent to look at 12 houses to buy.   I think this was important.   The hospital finally called us at 9:00 pm to tell us that a bed had opened up.   So we got our bags and headed off.   We got admitted right away.   Jennifer was already dilated to one centimeter and was experiencing contractions already.   She was going to try to have the baby naturally.   I think all the walking helped.   We were trying to do whatever we could to avoid a C-section.   That was the plan if the inducing didn’t work.   For Jennifer’s health, we had to get this baby o...

For children, divorce is like the father grabbing the left wrist of the child and the mother grabbing the right wrist in a tug of war for control and affection of the child.  Kids are obviously the ones injured in the tussle.  Alienation is using words and actions so the child will shun the other parent in the tug of war.  I for the most part have let go of the wrist in order to not further harm the children.  Here is how Wikipedia describes Parental Alienation: Parental alienation is a social dynamic, generally occurring due to divorce or separation , when a child expresses unjustified hatred or unreasonably strong dislike of one parent, making access by the rejected parent difficult or impossible. These feelings may be influenced by negative comments by the other parent and by the characteristics, such as lack of empathy and warmth, of the rejected parent. I have mentioned past illustrations of alienating actions in previous versions of this blog so I wont re...

I haven’t had much time to write lately, though I’ve had so many blogworthy items to write about.  I’ve had my boys for the last six weeks and Im devoting all of my extra time to them and caring for Jennifer.  We are at a lull at the moment as its bedtime for Jennifer and I. The boys wanted to stay up to watch TV so I don’t feel like I’m sacrificing time with them.  Your prayers are so appreciative and coveted.  They really do work.  I feel amazingly blessed at the moment.  I feel my life is peaking, but the peak from this vantage point doesn’t seem to have an apex, it just keeps getting higher and higher.  Isn’t that how life is supposed to be?  I don’t mention all of the blessings in my life to gloat.  Instead I try to use my hardships as a testimony to how God can turn a life around.  I’ve heard a lot of dramatic testimonies of people lives before and after Christ.  But since I’ve been a Christian virtually my entire life, I have...

Ugh…I just almost finished a blog and boom it locked up on me.  As a writer, I just hate it what that happens.  I can bemoan the situation and what was lost, or reboot and try to write as quickly as possible trying to recreate it.  I can not go back and recapture lost time.  I can just move forward and make the best of it.  I have not always been like this.  About 10 years ago, in the midst of my first family.  Is that a politically or emotionally correct term?  I was a writing a screenplay.  I had 30 pages written and they were a great 30 pages, or so I thought at the time.  I can’t remember the details, but for some reason they were accidentally deleted or became corrupt or something.  I remember having a choice to make, I could quickly rewrite them or try to recover the files.  I decided to a recovery strategy.  I went out and bought expensive auto-recovery software and tried to piece together the missing parts.  ...